Did you know that you can change the way you feel by simply changing the language you use? When you ask someone how they are and you get the response like – hanging in there, struggling, things could be worse, how does that make you feel?

When I challenge clients to focus on what they really want in life, many times they will say things like, in an ideal world these ideas are great but I have responsibilities, I have commitments, I have bills to pay, a family to support, a mortgage to pay off. I always wanted to take off and travel around the world, but I can’t do that, I have a family to provide for. When I hear these types of comments, I feel the person has become a victim of circumstance and has allowed external elements such as family members, their financial commitments and social expectations dictate to them how they should live their lives.

Next book for review: First, Break All The Rules Author: Marcus Buckhingham & Curt Hoffman Thur 26th Apr @ 1pm - Pery Hotel, Limerick.: